Ease the hardest moments for the people you love
DoneAfter helps your family avoid guessing — giving them the messages, instructions, and access they need, exactly when they need them, under rules you set while you're clear-headed.
Start Your Family PlanWhat family members receive
Only what you choose, only after your release rules are met — never your entire private plan at once.
Personal messages
Final goodbyes, life advice, apologies, and milestone letters written in your own words.
Important instructions
Where to find documents, how to handle accounts, funeral wishes, and what your priorities are.
Shared memories
A private family timeline of photos, stories, and the moments that mattered — when you open it.
Secure document access
Signed, expiring links to the vault items assigned to them — not attachments blasted to email.
Outreach when it matters
Coordinated notices to family, friends, and funeral contacts in the order you defined.
Clarity over chaos
A legacy checklist and role-based portal so each person knows their next step.
The right people, with the right permissions
Roles are intentional. A spouse, executor, and memorial contact should not see the same things.
- You invite trusted contacts and assign each a clear role
- They confirm their identity and accept (or decline) responsibility
- They see only their role — never your full private plan
- They can submit a verification request if something happens to you
- Approvers can vote on sensitive releases when your rules require it
After something happens
A calm path from concern to verified release.
A trusted contact reaches out
They submit a verification request and upload supporting evidence.
DoneAfter verifies
Our review confirms the event with evidence and any required approvals.
The right things release
Messages and documents are shared through secure links, according to your rules.
Be present for birthdays and milestones
- Schedule “open when” messages for ages, graduations, and weddings
- Send real physical letters when paper is the right medium
- Keep funeral and memorial notices ready without drafting under pressure
- Leave AI likeness rules so no one has to invent your boundaries
Give your family clarity instead of chaos
Start free today. Add trusted contacts and your first messages in minutes — then deepen the plan over time.